No. 15: Honoring the Companions Who Got Us Through
- stephstarzinski
- Nov 23
- 2 min read
The Ones Who Stayed Close
Not every season is carried by big victories or grand support.
Some seasons are survived because someone quiet stayed near.
A presence.
A heartbeat.
A steady, wordless kind of love.
For me, that presence often looks like four soft paws
and a warm body curled against the curve of my leg
on nights when the world felt too loud.
The Comfort of Being Seen
There is a kind of companionship
that doesn’t need language.
No advice.
No fixing.
No asking you to be stronger than you are.
Just silent recognition
from a creature who loves you
exactly as you are in that moment—
weary, uncertain, unraveling a little at the edges.
Sometimes that is enough.
Sometimes that is everything.
The Presence That Heals
My dog has seen versions of me
I didn’t show the world—
the tears quietly wiped away in the corner of the couch,
the deep breaths held too long,
the exhaustion I didn’t have words for.
She didn’t demand anything.
She didn’t question.
She simply stayed.
A warm reminder
that love can be simple
and still profound.
The Small Things That Hold Us
Support doesn’t always look like
long conversations or dramatic moments of help.
Sometimes it looks like:
A friend texting, “I’m thinking of you.”
A dog resting her head on your knee.
A hug that lasts one second longer than necessary.
Someone noticing you’re tired
even when you didn’t say so.
We underestimate how much those small gestures
keep us going.
We forget to honor them.
A Quiet Thank You
So this is a thank you
to the companions who carried me
without ever asking to be thanked.
To the ones who sat beside me
when I couldn’t speak the weight I was holding.
To the softness that showed up
in the middle of hard days.
To the friendships that didn’t need explanations
to understand something had shifted.
You helped me through.
You helped me stay.
A Reminder for You
Think of the presence
that stood with you in your difficult season—
maybe a pet,
maybe a friend,
maybe someone who barely knew the role they played.
Let yourself feel grateful for them
in the smallest, quietest way.
Because not all love arrives with fanfare.
Some love simply stays.
And staying
is its own form of grace.
—Steph
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